WAW served me, 2 weeks in, looking for pointers

[KarenR]

I am sorry for what you are going through. Your wife is hurt and feels betrayed, so it will take time for her to forgive. It is great that you have made changes, but that too will take time for her notice. The DB coaches will help you come up with a step by step plan of what is most likely to bring her closer and not push her any further away...when you have contact, whether in person or by phone, email etc. The books are great, but working with a coach helps you in your particular situation. Take good care.