Couple more questions for everyone though; ever since i moved out, she's called and/or texted every day except for one. Should I not respond or ignore the attempts to communicate?
The general DB'ing approach is this: sometimes respond right away, sometimes respond hours later and sometimes don't respond at all. Mix it up. The idea is to create mystery and to let her know you're not sitting by the phone waiting for her to contact you. The BEST thing to do is to actually be too busy to reply right away. IE, if you don't reply for an hour it's because you really are doing something GAL related.
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Should I tell her to stop, or let her keep doing it?
Same approach here, go sometimes and be too busy to go other times.
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She has changed dramatically since I moved. She's actually become more caring like when we first dated and the first few yrs of our marriage.
It's not unusual for this to happen, it's because she no longer feels the pressure of the M hanging over her head now that she's on her own. Be careful though, she may be doing it to keep you on as her backup plan and you don't want that. That's why you need to GAL and make her think she could lose you- so she doesn't just take for granted that you'll always be there waiting.
