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Fartiltre #2387660 09/23/13 02:00 PM
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M46,W41
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BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy
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Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy
Fartiltre #2387662 09/23/13 02:00 PM
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Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy
Fartiltre #2387663 09/23/13 02:00 PM
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Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy
Fartiltre #2387959 09/24/13 04:25 PM
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Well it's been a week since my last post and I still don't see it frown
I guess I will keep trying...


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy
jp787 #2387985 09/24/13 05:08 PM
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I can see your posts JP smile Maybe ask the admin why you can't see your posts?


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3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
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Hey, jp, what's up?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
labug #2388153 09/25/13 03:31 AM
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Hi, jp, thanks for posting on my thread!

I understand what you mean about not being able to come here sometimes & needing a break. Sometimes you just need to get away from it for a little while--not write about all the details of what you are thinking or feeling.'

Or, to read what other people are struggling with...

BUt, for me I find it comforting to know I am not alone. That there are SO many of us fighting similar battles. And, that feels good to me. SO, I come here to feel good, to recognize my truth and to get feedback as to where to go from here...to take the next step on my journey.

When I remember that life is about the journey and not the destination it helps to enjoy the trip along the way--the small, enjoyable moments in my life. Find something each day that brings you a bit of joy...

...and come here-- where we are all here for you and for one another in what is a very difficult time in our lives.


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.
littleGTO #2388158 09/25/13 04:43 AM
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Yep, agree with littleGTO....

I just took a week break from here to think through some stuff.

But, I do appreciate so much being able to come here and read stories of others who are going through the same thing.

We are not alone. It does get better. And, we are going to be ok.

And, yes, we do need to find joy in each day...some days are harder than others, but try to find something each day to find joy in.

Angela

Feenix #2389246 09/29/13 02:13 PM
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Can I please be off moderation? I promise to be good wink
I will even bake you cookies!


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy
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