Youve done so well- I dont know what your time commitments look like but your next step should be to "start giving back".

We survived a bomb drop.....even exceeded (in many minds)the expectations others placed on you after they learned about the sitch. Its time to find some volunteer opportunities.

These opportunities will introduce you to other successful people. They will also help keep your mind off the time you cant spend with your boys..........plus good karma.

Furthermore, you stop thinking about you

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13