I agree, from what you've researched it's close.

And for many people, money now is better than possible money later.

If you sell the house when you can, I know it seems sad for the kids but the more stabilizing factor for them is having parents who may not live together but can get along for their(kids) best interests. Keep that as your intention.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss