The first one sounds good. Is that fair to both of you?
Yes and no. It's subjective.
If we took it to court for them to decide it could more in either favour, most likely W's.
The way I'm looking at it is if I'm willing and can pay it and she is willing to accept it then that is what it is.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14