It is hard 2, very hard. We want answers to it all now, especially when it catches us by surprise. We want so badly to correct it and make it all right.
Patience and endurance are key. Your response shows me that you are getting it now! It's so difficult to change ourselves when we aren't even sure what we did wrong. Trust the process and remain consistent.
Stay calm 2old. We are here for you!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.