Looking for New Options If H Wants Divorce

[KenF]

MNS
yes, the two are mutually exclusive. you can protect yourself financially and still save your marriage.

and you're absolutely right, he needs to be willing too.

i think you're doing everything right.

and it is tough to keep your mind clear, you will end up thinking of H often, thats just the way it is. the trick is not to allow yourself to wallow.

what tends to happen is what you think about becomes habit, and your mind will return to these habitual thoughts when you're not paying attention. So you want to make your habitual thoughts healthy.