W has stated several times that she wants us to be together at Christmas evening but I don’t want that.
Last Christmas my W wanted to do the gift exchange together and I didn't. Here's the bottom line- what do you think is best for your kids? For me I didn't really have to think long about it, clearly the kids would be happiest if we all got together and did the gift exchange and then had our traditional lunch. So that's what we did, and it went great.
It's at times like this where certain ideas clash in DB.
Right now F is NC with his W unless it's about the kids so his W can't cake eat. All being together for Christmas would be great for the kids and no doubt that is what they want. At the same time they would also probably like him to go over to his W's for dinner every time she invites him too.
He is trying to show her what life is like without him. He can't do that if they spend Christmas together.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
