Hmmm, very interesting nblost. Even though my H is still in the A right now, I find myself with a little case of apathy too.

Because he is not the person I remember or would want to be with right now because of his behavior, i.e. immature kid, not appealing.

I don't think it's unusual as you are trying to protect your heart and feelings. H would need a lot of work before I would consider being together again. Too many things we both need to work on as a couple.

Maybe a vet will post with some better insight. I am glad you are at a better place - sounds wonderful.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.