I've read through all of your threads since 2002 and I haven't seen you ever post about your M problems. You mentioned your depression which caused your W to leave in the first place 11 years ago and now you say that you had met someone before that you were thinking of leaving your W for?

What is your REAL marital history? The more info you give the more help you will get. And be honest.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER