And So The End Is Near...

[Intact]

Glad to see you drop by, and glad you are doing well. You sound good.

We both made plenty of mistakes but I will never forgive or condone the way in which she reacted to those mistakes.

To me, those are two different things. Forgiveness is a choice.

Perhaps I'm just not a very forgiving person.

Maybe you could be...

Thanks for your post. Perhaps you're right and 'Forgiveness' is something I could work on.

I really don't feel much need to forgive her in all honesty. Her decisions don't haunt me anymore, they don't wake me up at night and it's been a long, long time since I've shed a tear over the decisions she made.

Perhaps one day I will feel the need to forgive - and that is a decision I can make then.

DBing was great for me - I am a better person for this whole process - yes I still need to make improvements - but I am confident I have done so much work on myself - Of course, I wish we could have done the work on our relationship but it just wasn't too be...