If I could salvage my M, that would be my preference, but at this point, he has to be willing to get help and to want to make it work. However, as you said, I must protect myself financially. The good thing is that we have separate bank accounts and credit cards. I get a credit report every week, so I check that to make sure he is opening cards in my name.
It is one of the reasons I wanted to go and see a financial advisor to see how I can swing this house on my own and still be able to save what I have been saving for retirement. I just want to be comfortable.
I am GALng, but my H comes into frame sometimes and I do wonder how and what he is doing. Anywhos - back to the grind this morning. Have a good day everyone.
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Me: 44 Him: 51 Married: 9 years Together: 14 years