A New Phase?

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Just a quick update...and maybe to give some of you hope...my H told me he broke up with OW last month. He now wants to try again...however, I think I am done. I guess for me the detachment phase worked too well and H seems like an immature kid. I am happier now than I was when we were together.

That said, I still wish we could be together for the kids and financially....but I think that desire is more based on fear than doing what is best for me.

If anyone remembers me...I'd be curious if my apathy surprises you.

I will say its nice if/when the affair ends just to know it was all ridiculous.

And, no regrets on confronting, filing for divorce and drawing boundaries...you have to have respect for yourself for your spouse to ever respect you again.