NEW LIFE / NEW ME - TAKING OFF!

[Fartiltre]

Sandi,

I posted 4 points yesterday that I need to get sorted out with W but I forgot one: Christmas

As you properly recall most my family is gone and therefore I am planning on speaking to neighbors about getting together for
Christmas. I hope they will accept this.

I can’t speak to neighbors before W and I have sorted the Christmas planning out so I need to do this soon.

W has stated several times that she wants us to be together at Christmas evening but I don’t want that. I will need to address this also since W and I haven’t talked about how to handle the Ds at Christmas. I am quite sure that she will agree on me having them since S10 is here as well and the children should experience this together. At the same time she will NOT, in any way, be happy, discovering that I am planning in another direction than her.

I am not scared of this confrontation – I just want to play my hand as well as possible.

Any advice regarding this and the 4 point list from yesterday?

Thanks!

F