When in doubt do nothing, which is what I did...nothing. No card, no e-card, no e-mail, no phone call, no text message...nothing.
I did remind a friend of mine that it was her birthday and he called her to wish her Happy Birthday but that was on his own accord. He suggested I give her a call and I told him that it's just not good timing right now.
Deals are getting finalized. You lose faith in people so fast because 98.5% of the people you deal with are a waste of time....which is kind of why my WAW lost faith in me....dreadful . We made more adjustments today on them and tomorrow has some deadlines that need to be met on documentation which will be good benchmark as to them getting done this month.
I did not think much about her Birthday and maybe that's a product of going dark and how detaching is about focusing on removing the emotions from the situation. I thought about it more today actually and it was disappointing that I could not do anything with her/for her. I just know it will get more challenging as the holiday season approaches, so I guess it was a good trial by fire.
Will keep you posted.....sounds like we both need more shots of patience, it's all we got control over right now.
Me: 42 WAW: 37 Kids: 0 Separated: 06APR13 M:7 Years, T:10 years WAW states she wants to "move on": 01JUL13 "Courage is the standing army of the soul which keeps it from conquest, pillage, & slavery."
. We made more adjustments today on them and tomorrow has some deadlines that need to be met on documentation which will be good benchmark as to them getting done this month.
