Just found out that my mom found out what's going on and she is coming from overseas to give me support.

The other thing is that I am freaking out cause I now know that he is looking for an apartment and now

He just said that he is thinking about taking the kids with him to his parents 5 hours away: what do I think?

I am freaking out, cause I do not know what to do, actually I just want to strangle him. But what I really want are my kids. I did not answer his question about thanksgiving. Then h says, or we can stay here and have thanksgiving together. My oldest will be crushed, she always goes to my in laws for thanksgiving. What irks me is that in both scenarios he is there and I am not?

Does anyone know what to do in this situation? I am lost...have not thought about holidays... I don't know.... Please help

Me 37
H 37
D9
D6
M9/ T12
ILYBINILWY 05/2013
Asked to S 06/13
Said he wants to S for sure 08/13
Said that he's looking for a place (Sept 17/13)
No ring on his finger (Sept 19/13)