In and out of fog city

[2ndtimearoundCA]

Knowing my w, her history, and things she said when she left, there is a virtual certainty that she has been physically involved with other men since we separated. That in and of itself will be tough to get through, but I think I could. When she left she was done and I was out of the picture. She would not have been cheating.

The bigger issue will be if she was involved with someone before we separated. That will create trust issues.

If she is fully involved in an A right now, then that will slow things down. I would like to know, because if she is, then she is cake eating and I will go dark.