better to love or be loved?

[kat727]

So you aren't divorced but are in a surviving divorce forum? Well if you want the advice to help you deal with the divorce, quit focusing on him, work on creating the life you want. If you are trying to save your marriage, again focus on making you better and stop thinking about him.

No marriage was ever saved by the left behind spouse pining after the walk away spouse. Quit giving him your power. Why would you want the man he is now...a cheater? You deserve better than that. Focus!!

kat