2old, you mentioned that it was cut and dried. Think back to the last emails you've exchanged, all positive! You sent her a HB email, she sent one back saying thanks, you sent her one back saying glad you liked it have a nice weekend and then she sent one back saying if you change your address can you let me know. Why all of a sudden is that being negative and wanting a D? Like someone said on here there could be a million and one reasons why she wants your change of address.
You also grumbled that you've had n/c from her and you've been feeling more positive. Who's fault is that? You're the one that initiated the contact this time round by wishing her a HB.
My H said he wants a D in June and I'm still waiting for a letter from his solicitor, lol. I don't know the laws over there, but over here you can refuse to D them if you don't want to. That's what I'm going to do anyway and who's going to be wasting their money? Not me smile hehehe :)< or should that be an evil laugh smile

H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!