"I just don't want to see you get caught up in what if, or what could be. It is just not worth it either way. And the more time that you spend wondering, is time that you waste that you could be using for yourself..."
Thanks Mach, I really am in a good frame of mind as I decided a few weeks ago to swim not sink. This unexpected contact from her was a curveball though. Doens't take a rocket scientist to figure out what "If you have any plans of moving, could you please keep me posted and send me your new address etc." means. Fairly Cut and dry...I did get an invitation from a friend in Australia to visit them, Hmmmmm.....