Hi lifejustgothard. I just read through some of your posts. AnotherStander is right, you would get way more traffic in the Newcomers section, although I will keep checking in to see if you are still here! How are you doing? It's great that you are continuing to focus on yourself and GAL'ing. That's great that you've been in piecing for 2 years. I got the big BD in Feb this year and we have had a CRAZY 6 months, to say the least. Then my H finally told me he wanted to separate and moved out. Now, 2 weeks later he is saying he was starting to change his mind about everything!
What kind of questions were you wondering if you should ask your H about? Is it really pressing to you to know the answers? Are you still doing MC? If so, why not bring up your question in counselling? If your question is something that would ease your mind then perhaps you should ask him about it in a calm, non-confrontational way and just tell him that you need to know for your own peace of mind.
Take care, -cp
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.