The DB'ing approach is to give the WAS lots of time and space. MC is the opposite of DB'ing. MC puts lots of pressure on the WAS. It makes them constantly talk about the M, which they do NOT want to do. The C will make them look at themselves and their faults, which they do NOT want to do. The C will also give them homework, exercises to try and work on the M. And.... right, they do NOT want to do that either. MC makes the WAS do all of the things they don't want to do, which makes them angry and bitter and resentful. It makes them want the M even less. Will a year of MC change his mind? Based on the many MC experiences that have been posted on these forums the answer is a resounding NO. Not only that, but it's highly unlikely that he'll make it past a few sessions before he declares it "useless" and decides not to go anymore.
