I dont know Sandi. Even is she doesn't speak I will be getting closure so I guess it doesn't really matter. Nor do I intend on pursuing it with her. I will remain steadfast in my n/c as nothing can be said to her and I must "Walk like A man"... Which thank you for the lyrics by the way! I have the song and always liked that one....I've posted those lyrics a couple of times on my thread...