"My wife is having multiple affairs and im thankful I dont have Cancer. You have Cancer and are thankful you dont have AIDS......WOW"
That bite of reality came when my friend told me that he was the admin of a AIDS support facebook page. He said he does it "Because AIDS scares me.....people die from it".
I was pretty down because D3.5 had been away with Mommy for 4 nights straight. Im on a routine with her and this screwed up my routine and me.
No sunday bikeride and bakery run. Its been a long time.
So instead I went to my friends house because he enjoys the soap opera that has become my life. He cant believe that my W has suddenly become who she is and doing what she is doing. However, he himself was in a similar fog in a (alt)relationship he was in. So he is my easily accessible "Sandy2'
I am quite the comedic relief when compared to bone marrow testing and having tumors scraped out of his bladder. Similar to this site, he has similar relationships with folks around the world on Cancer sites- many drop away but a few find success and they are the beacons of light that help him keep going.
D3.5 is back and today is a new day that I get to enjoy.
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
