Wife left 8 weeks ago without telling me what she planned. Was supposed to be visiting her family up north and spend a little time with them. Drove her to the airport and after arriving there a few hours later I get a call from her saying they were sending someone to come pick up her car and would I bring it to the local airport when the next night. I asked what was up and she hesitated but stated she was leaving me permanently, then hesitated again and said it was permanent. I asked what was going on and the last thing she said was a sham of a marriage. All I could do was ask why she was doing it this way and got no answer convo ended there. That was the last time we spoke directly.
Okay, got it ( I think)
I think what Cadet was referring to is....
That the ILYBNILWY or whatever the f^%& that is, is a pretty standard script. And I think she said it without really saying it.
For what it is worth, the synonym, or whatever one hears, is pretty script with a WAS/MLCer. It is what they FEEL at the time. It may not be true, and it may not be what they are thinking today. Yet it IS what they were thinking at that time.
That is why it is so important to not believe anything that you hear, ( or in your case, NOT hear). Because the WAS acts on pure, raw emotion, and as you know....feeling can change from one minute to the next.
Why is it so important to know what she is/was thinking ???
IF you did know, how would that change the path that YOU are on ???
How does it change what your everyday life should look like ??
What you want it to look like ???
How does it change how YOU want to present yourself to the world ???
