Thank you Cadet, it was hard, but because of this forum and the book, I knew I had to be calm
Originally Posted By: Cadet
You are going to learn that talking, counseling, is a waste of time.
I was not sure that he was mentioning going with me to shut me up, or really meant it, until I remember someone n this forum saying that WAS can fake it. I will continue to go.
Originally Posted By: Cadet
You need to let him go.
It hurts just thinking about it, especially when I think what it will do to my kids
Originally Posted By: Cadet
It is the only chance that you might get him back.
That's what I want, I want him to want me back, to want our family back. I will do anything
Me 37 H 37 D9 D6 M9/ T12 ILYBINILWY 05/2013 Asked to S 06/13 Said he wants to S for sure 08/13 Said that he's looking for a place (Sept 17/13) No ring on his finger (Sept 19/13)