Originally Posted By: Cadet
Good job getting through the talk.


Thank you Cadet, it was hard, but because of this forum and the book, I knew I had to be calm

Originally Posted By: Cadet
You are going to learn that talking, counseling, is a waste of time.


I was not sure that he was mentioning going with me to shut me up, or really meant it, until I remember someone n this forum saying that WAS can fake it. I will continue to go.

Originally Posted By: Cadet
You need to let him go.


It hurts just thinking about it, especially when I think what it will do to my kids

Originally Posted By: Cadet
It is the only chance that you might get him back.


That's what I want, I want him to want me back, to want our family back. I will do anything


Me 37
H 37
D9
D6
M9/ T12
ILYBINILWY 05/2013
Asked to S 06/13
Said he wants to S for sure 08/13
Said that he's looking for a place (Sept 17/13)
No ring on his finger (Sept 19/13)