Good advice up there ^^^^ . I don't have anything new to add. Just re-inforce that she needs to feel like this decision, whichever one she chooses, is ALL hers, as rH said. My W is same way, she has to know and feel that staying or going is all her decision. That doesn't mean that there won't come a point where I make the "go" decision for her, but today is not that day...
I can "hear" the strength, you are doing great!
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
