MH, I really envy your friendship with your W. I can barely get my H to say hello sometimes when he comes over to see S13, or at least that's how its been since he decided he was done trying at the beginning of the month. I can usually tell when OW isn't available though - he's always more chatty with me, either f2f or by text. We saw more of each other in the time that he considered our separation to be a trial - at least then he would ask me to join him for a drink or two, and we'd chat.
Oh well, no pity party - before anyone gets out the 2x4's. It was his choice but I will continue to GAL and make myself a better person. If he doesn't come back, then I'll be all the better for the next man in my life. Right now the most important man in my life is my son, and he's my pride and joy
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
