Join the crowd! I've been here a month now with very little progress, others have been on here 5 months, others have been on here for YEARS.
I also guarantee probably everyone on here has felt like throwing in the towel many times, but you pick yourself back up.
I'd stop asking her to move back in - if it comes from a counselor, fine, but NOT from you. Also, what do you do in your spare time? How do you keep yourself occupied?