Wife moved out, won't come back home

[newton0]

Hi All, my wife moved out several weeks ago after an argument & refuses to come home 'to the same thing'. She has agreed to joint counseling and we have been to three sessions so far, but she is keeping me at arms length which is getting very, very tiring. The counselor is trying to get her to come back to the home, but so far she refuses. We have dinner out once or twice a week and all I get is a hug. Sometimes she will text me, other times days will pass with no contact. She is very unhappy with her own personal life as well, and the counselor is trying to work on that with her as well. I've offered her to come home with me staying in another room, but she keeps saying she's not ready. She's renting a room from someone on a week-by-week basis.

I know my choices are to simply do nothing and give her space & continue the therapy while focusing on my own happiness, or file a separation agreement.

It would almost be easier if she served me with papers & ceased all contact with me.

I'm almost finished with Divorce Busting, but this living in limbo is a very difficult place to reside for me.

<sigh>.