Thanks Pud, sometimes it's difficult but our emotions belong to us, we can share them with others as needed but they can't fix them and shouldn't have to try. Keep at it, you'll get there.
Ruby, Fantastic! Now I have a friend in 2 very different geographic locations who will be there when needed. Love it! We all need at least one of those.
All I need to hear is: throw the shovel in the trunk.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss