I won't bust on you too much Jon, this is a very difficult and painful process.

The one observation I would like to offer is that you question your Ws confusion, going from one extreme to another, but in a sense you are as well. As I read through your threads you express hurt and love for your W, then the next day you proclaim that you are finished.

The truth is, you aren't finished and neither is she.


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012