You are in a good place bud, she's communicating and that is a BIG deal. Take it slow, PRAY always and just be the husband that loves his W unconditionally. Also while this site is to help people going through a traumatic time in their lives not ALL adivce here is good advice. Some posters can be very toxic with all the hyperbole and bitterness. Eat the meat and throw away the bone. Yes all our sitiuations are similiar but your sitch is your sitch. Only you know your W... Be positive and remember life and death is the tongue, speak life!