In truth I wouldn't really say I do forgive her. I'm no longer bitter towards her but wouldn't actually say I forgive her. We both made plenty of mistakes but I will never forgive or condone the way in which she reacted to those mistakes.
Perhaps I'm just not a very forgiving person... I wish her well, I really do - and the odd times I do see her I can see that this whole saga has taken a huge physical tole on her - that makes me feel a little sad if anything - but in no way forgiving.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013