better to love or be loved?

[kat727]

You are thinking way too much about someone who isn't your immediate concern. You and your kids are what matter. That is where your focus needs to be. Quit trying to figure him out.

The relationship the kids have with their dad is between him and them. You don't need to figure it out or drill your kids about it. You aren't going to move forward if you can't wrap your head around this.

kat