Just thought I'd give an update on my situation.

My Wife and I are still separated and rarely see each other or talk. Believe it or not that's fine be my at the moment.

Our Son has adapted well and is thus far doing us proud.

My Wife is still in the relationship that "began" just days after she left.
The OM is somewhat in our Sons life but has only ever been introduced as a "friend"

I am still single - but I'm also happy with that. I now know that I do not need anybody else in order to survive. I live a happy and fulfilled life.

There are of course still moments when I miss my family and I think there always will be.

It's hard to believe how fast the time has gone.

I guess I just want to tell anyone that no matter how your story ends - you will survive. You can be strong. I did so much wrong - but I'm still here - building a new life for me and my Son. I am happy. You will be too.


W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013