One giant leap forward! - Part 7

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Friday when I was on my way to pick kids up I text W to say I would be a bit late because of the traffic. She thanked me for keeping her informed. A strange reply from her considering it means being late.

Saturday was a good day with the kids.

Saturday night I went out. The guy I was with is someone who sells things to the company I work for.
I met him about 7 years ago and speak to him every few months.
He was buying dinner too, through his company.
We had a good night. He has been going through a similar time to me with his marriage. They split for 6 months and then he went back as she agreed to work on it. They had a MC but his W wouldn't let the past go and wouldn't discuss sex which he thought was lacking in the R. He left after that and they are planning D.
We chatted about our situations. I'm didn't tell him everything but I did talk about some stuff.
It was good to speak to someone in person in a similar sitch.

He mentioned that I seem like a different person. He said 7 years ago I stuttered quite a lot where now I come across as very at ease. I then realized that I was at a bar (a place I used to be very uncomfortable in) , I was very relaxed, looking good (best dressed there) and feeling good.
I told him about some of the things I have been working on to be the best me I can be.

He was telling me about people spying on his FB and telling his W everything he was doing. I told him that somethings I had put on had gotten back to W because some of her family is on mine. I said it doesn't bother me as I have nothing to hide and if I did I wouldn't put it on FB. After that (as a joke) he was checking us in on FB everywhere we went and said it would give everyone something to talk about.

I left at 23:40 to get home for the babysitter and I had the kids to deal with in the morning.
I had been in bed an hour and he was still checking us both in to bars and clubs and telling people we were entering a dance contest and I was winning. I was laughing so hard!

I had a really good night. 2nd Saturday night out in a row, that is a first for me.


When I was taking the kids back yesterday W asked where I was dropping them off. I asked what she preferred, her house is a little further but way easier to get the kids in the house and her parents is slightly nearer but it was more difficult to get the kids in.
I remember when I was writing the text for some reason to make sure I don't put a kiss at the end of the text (out of habit).
She replied with "Drop them off at mine then x"

I know and she has said many times before that she doesn't put a kiss on a text unless she means it.
When I got that text I thought what the hell is her game! Whatever it is I don't want anything to do with it! Granted it could be gratitude.
I got to her house and I was I was getting the kids in she tried to engage me in conversation, telling me about stuff her Mom had said and other things. I briefly acknowledged what she was saying then kissed and hugged the kids and left.

Previously any of that sort of behaviour I would have been well happy about and this is normally what happens before she reaches out to me.
I have no idea what is going on and there is no point in trying to guess. It could be something it could be nothing. All I know is I don't want apart of it if it is something.

It got me thinking on the way home what I would have to see from here to have an interest. All I could come up with is a very very long time of her proving herself. I look at our R and I'm happier not being in it (WAS feelings).