ruby, in your scenario, if it feels right, then say it! Don't have any expectations of what your H will say to you, though! After a week of happy vaca (but no space) he may back off a bit now...don't be surprised.
However, he may continue to inch forward toward you!!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.