MNS... your last post tells me that you are far from detached. You are expending energy worrying. You are allowing too many negative thoughts. This is not detaching. It is not working on
Instead of worrying about a firebox, just keep the stuff in a bag and take it to work with you and keep it in your car. Anyone could walk off with a fire box. Three whacks with the BFH and it is open.
However, I continue to pray for him and the OW - while it is hard, I pray because the path of destruction they are on will undoubtedly be their destruction.
This strikes me as very condescending... Seriously.
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter
