Time and Tide

[RosaLinda]

FY "I know I've posted all my positives before, (we all have plenty) and then I still end up growing weary of our ongoing loveless marriage. I will again I'm sure. But hey, feelings come and go. If we don't like one of them we can acknowledge it and wait for the next one to come along. Live in the moment. Look for positives in everything. Enjoy every day to the best of our ability no matter what happens. It really is our choice how we respond to the trials we are all facing."

This is good advice FY, thanks. Always looking at the positives in everything requires BIG patience shovels, big hearts, and a lot of faith, but in my mind, is the only way to fly. I don't/can't always pull it off, but truly believe that having a positive attitude can change our worlds for the better. 

It is great that your W is redecorating her room! Good for her PMA, good because it means she doesn't plan to go anywhere soon. And when you two have completely restored your marriage, you will be amazed at how romantic and sexy it is to have separate rooms. I loved when my H used to visit me with a glass of wine and a gleam in his eye during his brief respite from MLC insanity. 

And I'm glad that course you took in being funny already paid off at the D support group!! Although in my eyes you already were one very humerous fellow!