Many times in my life I've watched people act highly critical of other peoples behaviors, and then turn around and engage in the same. But it's always DIFFERENT in their own circumstances. I suppose we're all guilty of a little inconsistency in our actions in life, but it can be quite a contrast in situations like this. I found myself in a similar situation helping a friend who found herself being the OW. It's hard to help someone on the other side of the fence, and try not to be too judgmental, when trying hard to do do your own DBing.
