Saturday she emailed me that she wasn't feeling well and wouldn't be visiting me at the house. (I was only expecting her to call.) Sunday (today) she says she's coming over. She gets to the house and spends some time with the cat. She starts talking about work. How she finally shared all her work concerns with our boss. How he seemed to already know what was concerning her. (She felt validated.) Once or twice she shared things I am not suppose to know and then said with venom, if I told anyone she would know it came from me. (She has done this off and on for months, but I am not a gossip. I have never shared confidential information. I am not sure why she thinks that I am.) Later she suggested I was going around telling people she's crazy. (I'm not and I told her that, not exactly DB/DR I know.) She feels perfectly justified in her attitude. Overall, I kept things light and upbeat. She smiled and even seemed her old self once or twice. Then she said she didn't feel like talking about us and promptly left. If past behavior is a guide, she has done this when she wanted to tell me something unpleasant. I hope it's just inappropriate mind reading on my part.
