WOW! Just Wow. I'm completely speechless. Yes, indeed, he is a broken person and until he figures out exactly who he is and what he wants he will continue to leave a trail of destruction behind him. I'm kind of sorry for her too, even though she was dumb enough to get involved with a married man.
You, my dear, sound absolutely wonderful! I'm so happy for you!!! You have made your life exactly what you want it to be. You are right, you wouldn't have had all of these growth opportunities if you had remained married to him. He did, in the end, do you a favor.
Doing happy dance for you right now!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!