But maybe not dig that deep and try to have him tell you the truth. He can't do that right now. It's good that he noticed your weight loss and how you looked in some jeans! <--positive!
I find it amusing how they start to do something that they have always done and then have to catch themselves. snicker.
My h has also started doing things that he would have balked at in the past. Or he reverts to things that were in his teen years. Not a gold chain though, lol. Ick - i agree!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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