Update - H dropped my son off today and had a coffee whilst he looked through the books that I'd left for him to sort out. He was going to just ditch all of them, but I persuaded him to go through them first. He ended up taking about 3 or 4 of them. Then he asked me about some camping gear that he wanted - a tent, a sleeping bag and a camping chair. I said is he planning to go camping and he said no he just wants them as I keep accusing him of coming in here and nicking stuff. He said he may take son camping, I said it's the wrong season for it. Something's going on, I know it is! He just won't tell me the truth. I even said to him, just tell me the truth I know that you've already been tagged in a FB photo with OW and daughter putting up a tent on the beach with some German friends of her daughters. He said I am telling you the truth, I'm still not going camping! I still don't believe him. He also commented on how much weight I've lost, he said he noticed it when I was wearing those jeans I had on yesterday. He asked how I've been dieting and I said I've just been cutting down. He said well done anyway. So that's a positive sign isn't it? He also went through the house and asked why I've not had the conservatory roof done and actually brought some ketchup in to the kitchen from the dining table. He stopped himself and said what am I doing? I nearly called him "hun" as well, but just stopped myself just in time. He's also started wearing a chain around his neck now which is like totally blah in my opinion. He said he has got himself a watch now as well. He never wears a watch, he used to wear a chain when I first met him and I used to hate it then! As for the camping lark, this is from someone who hates camping, lol. Go figure! He said he wanted to take my son out on his birthday as I’m at college. I said I was hoping he would take him out for dinner as I’m not going to be back until 5pm. He said he’ll take him out in the morning and that’s it and not to make him feel guilty. He asked why I don’t want to see him on his birthday and I said I did but I’m on a college trip all day. Anyone got any comments about this? I don't mind if I get a 2x4 either, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
