When amicable makes you want to scream

[Pudmuddle]

UD,

I really dislike this line "you're going to have to put your big girl panties"<--it is so overused, lol.

Anyhoo, yes that's exactly why we are here because we run on emotions right now and are retraining our minds. Impulses run strong when emotions are high. I feel like it was being invalidated and we have a right to eff up and make mistakes. So we messed up, we learn, we grow. My point was so she messed up, now move forward.

Thanks for the post. Pud