I love the shooting humor. LOL, glad you both came back in one piece.

I dislike texting as a form of major communication as well. It can be misread and misjudged, misinterpreted plus you can assume tone. I told my H almost the same thing when he texted me a huge text of things he had been doing. I called back and left a vm that if he had something big to say please call me first.

Your lessons learned are ones I am working on STFU and STOP.

You made me think too, that I have often taken out my stress or high emotions on my H as well and it just got to be to great for him to handle. Who wants to come home to THAT every night?

Thanks for making me think!


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.