I love the shooting humor. LOL, glad you both came back in one piece.
I dislike texting as a form of major communication as well. It can be misread and misjudged, misinterpreted plus you can assume tone. I told my H almost the same thing when he texted me a huge text of things he had been doing. I called back and left a vm that if he had something big to say please call me first.
Your lessons learned are ones I am working on STFU and STOP.
You made me think too, that I have often taken out my stress or high emotions on my H as well and it just got to be to great for him to handle. Who wants to come home to THAT every night?
Thanks for making me think!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.