It was when I cam to a point and realized that my W and I were getting a D no matter what I did, no matter how I felt about it, or whether it was right thing to do... It was going to happen and neither one of us needed permission to do it.
You are going to have to fill out paperwork and stuff. The not helping thing only goes so far before it seems like you are just being stubborn.
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter
