Made up my mind - I am not going to fight H to not divorce, but I am also not going to help him. It has been so quiet since he has gone and it has done wonders for my sanity and I like not having to be in his "firing" line.
I will only respond if he contacts me, but I will respond after one day of receiving any calls, texts because then I have time to reflect and not respond on emotion. I will continue to pray for myself and our marriage. And I will continue my running. I really need to get myself ready for this race 1 month from today.
So really, the preparation for the race will become my primary GAL activity and it will be good to get fresh air consistently. I have ALWAYS felt better emotionally and physically after working out.
Well, today, I need to get out of the house - so yardwork and shopping for much needed groceries. I hope everyone has a great day!
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Me: 44 Him: 51 Married: 9 years Together: 14 years